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So, how does age factor into this? Well, we all know that sexuality is fluid, and sometimes that fluidity becomes more obvious later in life. Women want to see the way they experience pleasure mirrored back to them rather than watching some dude with a veiny penis spraying a woman in the face like his penis is a firehose. According to a PornHub survey from 2015/2016, “lesbian” porn is the most searched for type of porn for women in the United States. Lesbian-labeled porn focuses more on the pleasure of a woman, which we know straight porn very rarely does. Not to mention that even in pretty vanilla straight porn, the woman often serves as merely a vessel for the man’s pleasure, and is sometimes put into near demeaning situations that puts female viewers off. This is probably why straight women tend to be more interested in watching “lesbian” porn (I use the quotes because even most lesbian porn isn’t made for those who identify as lesbians.) Partially because straight porn (with a man and a woman) is so absurd to watch. And I’ve seen more men naked sexually than I have women.
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During our conversation, my bestie also told me: “The naked female body is way more aesthetically pleasing than the male body.” I obviously agree. It’s worth mentioning that 50% of the women in the study admitted to fantasizing about a woman. “Even among people who identify as heterosexual, there is a lot of variation in who they fantasize being with, who they’re attracted to, and who they actually engage in sexual activity with,” Elizabeth Morgan, the Boise State University professor of psychology who conducted the study, said in an interview with You Beauty back in 2011. Kissing is usually as far as it goes, and it may not always be more than just a drunken make out session during a college party, but it’s still significant. There are many women out there who can and will admit to experimenting sexually with women in their younger days. Of the women who participated in the study, 45% of women admitted to kissing another woman. 484 women were questioned for the study, and the numbers show that a higher amount of women than expected have sexual ideations about other women in one way or another.
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Turns out my bestie isn’t an anomaly - there are a lot of women out there who identify as straight but also admit to having sexual attractions to women.Īccording to a 2011 study conducted by researchers at Boise State University, 60 percent of women who identify as heterosexual (straight) have admitted to being sexually attracted to another woman.
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Part of me wondered if maybe I just surround myself by women who are more sexually fluid, but another part wondered if there was something more at play. I had never really talked to any of my friends who identify as straight about their sexual feelings towards other women before. But it was interesting to me that she talked about her sexual attraction to another woman so casually. Of course, there is a very slim chance of my bestie or me ever getting the opportunity to have sex with Rihanna.